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The Family on Trial
“If there were a Nuremberg for crimes during peacetime,
nine mothers out of ten would be summoned to appear.”—Tony
Duvert, interviewed in Libération,
on April 10, 1979
Ladies and Gentlemen, the book you are
about to read will change your life forever. Never before have you
encountered a text as rigorous, as relentless, as energetically malcontent
or as disgruntled. So step right up, if you dare. The subject? The
Sexual Order of the entire Western World. Using structures and concepts
that parallel those of capitalist economics, Mr. Duvert will demonstrate
before your very eyes what our sex lives really are: exploited, objectified,
imprisoned, profit-driven… and,
above all, castrated. And when you limp away from the experience—now
aware of how crotchless you are—you will forever after look with
jaundiced eye at everything you once held dear: marriage, the couple,
the protection of children, even psychotherapy.
Wait! Don’t put this book down. Tony Duvert’s rant against
these oppressions, which he somehow manages to sustain from start to
finish at a manic, nearly delirious level of analysis, subsists on a
much more exciting turbulence than the sex activism to which we Americans
are today accustomed, with its shallow bromides about the objectification
of women, child abuse or the rights of gays to marry. From a position
that is nearly converse to these concerns, Duvert points a rageful finger
at the strangulation of pleasure by capitalist shackles. He
demonstrates that, in our sexual order, orgasm follows the patterns of
any other kind of capital: it is commandeered by the State, which ensures
that its consumption will always be tied to another’s profit, and
that any free, or pointless, expenditure of sexual energy will be forbidden.
A disaster from the start, given that sexual energy only brings pleasure
when its expenditure is “pointless”: as play, as
experiment or as an expression of good feelings. Today’s “good
sex,” however, is a voracious profit machine. Its tactics begin
when the sex of young children is “castrated” in the name
of familial order; continue into pubescence, when sexual energy is diverted,
or “commandeered,” with the help of contemporary sex education
so that any sex outside the family will be thought of as “perversion” or
molestation; and, finally, climax at adolescence, where the deformation
of the sexual instinct gets its finishing touches by the artful mechanism
of guilt, until sex finally becomes an investment toward future profit
for the State.
And what is the investment into which our poor, abused capacity for orgasms
will inevitably be put? Baby-making. That the cycle continue!
Who is Tony Duvert, and has he always been concerned with these issues?
He has. But Good Sex Illustrated marks a dramatic turning point
in his literary production. A novelist firmly rooted in the nouveau
roman, he won the prestigious Prix Medici for his 1973 novel, Paysage
de fantaisie, a year before the publication of this essay. The
novels that followed after Good Sex Illustrated were no longer
experimental in narrative style, going so far as to adopt a conventional
realist (or “pseudo-realist,” as he told an interviewer)
narrative approach. It’s as if the experience of writing nonfiction
had showed him the importance of expressing his ideas as clearly as possible,
and he looked back on his experimental past as a dialogue with himself.
From then on, his writings would be turned outward, more overtly political
and much more accessible.
Essentially, Duvert’s analysis of the sexual order is in contradiction
to most of today’s sex and gender “liberations,” all
of which are careful to respect motherhood and the crucial social importance
of nuclear family values. But it is the nuclear family itself that, after
being exploited, exploits in turn, first through motherhood, and later
through the authority of the father: it commandeers, castrates and twists
the child’s sex instinct into a sullen instrument of power in the
name of protection and education. It isolates him from the outside world
and portrays it as fraught with danger. This is, Duvert makes clear,
the same system that has manufactured the idea of the stranger as the
molester of children, just to keep the child from any outside influence
or contact with a non-family adult who might have a chance of removing
the veil of family enchantment. Such an invention (and Duvert insists
that it is an invention by pointing out the statistical infrequency
of violent molesters who are strangers and comparing the risk for harm
from such people to the much greater one of riding in the family car)
serves to deflect attention from the real psychological molester of children:
the father.
Father as castrator and perpetuator of the exploitive capitalist
system; mother as passive baby-machine that fashions child
marionettes; child as victim of both, his sex crushed
in the name of order, his chances for free expenditure of sexual energy prohibited:
this is the grim picture that Duvert presents, using as data a liberal, cheerful
French manual of sex intended for children and adolescents and published in
the early 70s, a year before Good Sex Illustrated was written. Duvert
analyzes this text with an obsession bordering on rapture and builds a narrative
of nearly total sexual devastation. And because he uses this liberal sex manual
for his case study, his text becomes a massive project in the construction
of irony, at the very moment in Western culture when sexual liberation was
supposedly blossoming.
This, in fact, is the great value of Good Sex Illustrated: its
Cassandra-like shrieks of doom in the midst of a celebration of sexual
victory at the dawn of our contemporary sexual mores, its spitting in
the face of the good doctors, therapists and teachers at the moment they
are tipping their hats to the “love generation” and congratulating
themselves on their alacrity at guiding children through the twisted
maze of sexual development. These good educators will be revealed by
Duvert as so many spineless collaborators; so the question is, I suppose,
whether, some thirty years later, Duvert’s poisonous analysis can
now be interpreted as an accurate, ominous prediction of life today,
or whether his complaints have been proven to be somewhat off mark.
Both, in my opinion. Much more than, say, Orwell’s 1984, Good
Sex Illustrated has turned out to be uncannily predictive. And just
as Duvert implied, very few of us pawns in the game are aware of it.
Take for example, his analysis of the bourgeois homosexual, who hopes
by collaborating with family values to build a niche for himself in the
exploitive sexual order, thereby positioning himself for a little pleasure.
Such behavior has reached “epidemic” proportions today. Or
the increase in the manufacturing of the evil stranger-sex-offender as
repository of all our anxieties about sex, as a mask for our covert exploitation
of others and to control, rather than protect, the sexuality of our children.
Or our use of the family-values alibi in general to consolidate more
and more privileges in the hands of a certain segment of the middle class.
On the other hand—and this is depressing—the part of Duvert’s
argument that seems off mark is that small aspect of it that is optimistic.
He hoped that measures placing sexual choice in the hands of minors in
countries such as Denmark, where the age of consent had just been lowered
to 14, would eventually produce a generation—the next one—that
would be free of those constraints that perpetuate the abuses of the
sexual order.
Today’s young adults are that very generation, and they certainly
exhibit a greater nonchalance about sex than generations of the past;
but are they any freer? They are, rather, a generation of disillusioned
libidinists, who see little value in “unleashing” the energy
of the orgasm and blame their permissive parents for dissipating the
power of sex and endangering it with new diseases. Finally, there are
certain phenomena that Duvert interpreted as symptoms of the oppression
of the sexual order, such as a lack of concern about the physical abuse
of very young children within the home by parents; but now that public
attention has focused on these problems, it hasn’t brought us any
closer to liberation from the sexual order he described.
Even so, Good Sex Illustrated should be lauded as one of the
more brilliant deconstructions of systems of capitalist exploitation.
In that capacity, its relevance will live on for many decades to come.
Once we have learned to look at sex as an economy, it becomes overwhelmingly
clear to whose profit that economy functions. That is also the moment
when many aspects of our own lives that we thought of as the results
of choices are suddenly reinterpreted as programmed stimulus-response
patterns drilled into us by punishment, lies and the withholding of rewards.
Translator's Remarks:
That said, I think that some brief remarks
about the translation of this work are warranted. In several key instances,
a word that had two essential meanings in French—one to do with economics and the other
to do with behavior—could not unfortunately be employed with the
same double connotation in English. For example, the French word détournement can
signify the misuse of public money, but it can also refer to the corruption
of a minor. I was not happy with some previous English translations of
the word as “detournment” when referring to the détournement of
the Situationists, so I had to be content with the translation “misappropriation,” which
is inadequate, but its full meaning progressively becomes clear in the
contexts in which Duvert uses the word. Even a French word as seemingly
straightforward as aliéner, often used by Duvert to describe
the effect of sex education on the young person’s sexuality, also
had economic connotations in this text because aliéner un
bien means “to dispose of property.” Additionally, consommation in
French can mean either “consumption” (an economic term) or “consummation” (relating
to sex and marriage), so I had to resort to the use of both words in
English, creating an association between the two as best I could. There
are a dozen other examples, and even the usually difficult jouissance (does
it mean “pleasure,” “orgasm,” “thrill,” “enjoyment” or
something more?) entailed extra problems because of the fact that avoir
la jouissance refers to the full use of a property under the eyes
of the law.
Building conduits between seemingly unrelated systems of thought is argument
by metaphor. When such a technique is sustained to the extent that it
is in Good Sex Illustrated, sparks fly, because an entirely
new system of thought is being created by the synthesis. In most cases,
this results in one side of the metaphor being reduced to ashes; and
in this case, all of our assumptions about sexual innocence and corruption,
marriage, birth, child-rearing and child education go up in smoke when
they are applied to capitalist economics. This is why I have referred
to Good Sex Illustrated as “nearly delirious.” It
is a ferocious, all-out attack on one of our most entrenched traditions.
An entire ideology is being dismantled by the raging of Duvert’s
mind through every aspect of our sexual order. I hope you enjoy the ride.
Bruce Benderson
Miami Beach, 2007
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